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Notes and summary: men and women communication styles

Short answer

Men use report-talk to give information, while women use rapport-talk for private connection. Conflict arises when each expects the other to communicate identically. Adapting styles, avoiding criticism, and learning healthy communication fosters fulfilling relationships.

Study the following text carefully. Prepare its note and convert it into summary. We are well acquainted with the fact that men and women are different in terms of appearance. [passage of about 330 words on "report-talk" of men and "rapport-talk" of women and how misunderstanding of these styles causes conflict] ... Whether you attend a therapy or not, if you want to have more fulfilling relationship with the opposite sex it is essential to learn new and healthy ways of relating and communicating.

Notes

Title: Men's and women's communication styles

  1. Difference
    • Men and women differ not only in appearance but also in communication
  2. Two styles
    • Men use "report-talk": giving information; public speaking
    • Women use "rapport-talk": small talk, private speaking; builds relationships
  3. Cause of conflict
    • We forget the differences; get angry or frustrated with the opposite sex
    • Each expects the other to think, feel and respond the same way
    • Men mistakenly expect women to react like men, and vice versa
  4. Advice
    • Use different styles to suit the message
    • Do not assume the other understands; do not criticise different styles
    • Learn new, healthy ways of relating (with or without therapy) for fulfilling relationships

Summary

Men and women differ in communication as well as appearance. Men use "report-talk", which gives information, while women use "rapport-talk", or small private talk that builds closeness. Conflict arises when each sex forgets this and expects the other to think and respond in the same way. People should adapt their style to the message, avoid criticising different styles, and learn healthier ways of communicating in order to have more fulfilling relationships.

(About 80 words.)

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