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Contractor friend's dinner and guesthouse offer

Short answer

Decline the guest house and weekly dinners, and arrange your own accommodation and meals. Inform your superior about the friendship and invitation, and keep inspections strictly to specification. Professional integrity and public trust come before friendship, but a transparent friendship can continue.

You are working as an Engineer from a Consulting Engineering Firm. Your contractor friend Er. Hari is working as a Project Engineer from contractor office in the same project. Mr. Hari invites you for dinner every Friday to celebrate "good Friday" and requests you to share the guest house for your accommodation. What would you do in maintaining the code of ethics and friendship relation? (Prepare a case study based on code of ethics. Make supplementary assumptions if necessary.)

Case and assumptions

I am a supervising engineer from the consulting firm; the project engineer Er. Hari of the contractor is my friend. I certify the quality of work and the contractor's bills. I assume the dinners are paid by Hari or his company, the guest house belongs to the contractor, and I pay nothing for accommodation. The firm has no rule that allows it.

Ethical issues

  • Conflict of interest: I act as the client's representative to check the contractor. Receiving regular benefits from the person I inspect makes my judgement doubtful, even if it is not actually affected.
  • Gifts and hospitality: weekly dinners and free accommodation are valuable benefits. They may be seen as a bribe or an inducement to overlook defects, and so they weaken honesty and impartiality.
  • Appearance: the public, client and other contractors may suspect favouritism. A professional must avoid even the appearance of wrong.
  • Law: the Nepal Engineering Council code of conduct requires engineers to act as faithful agents of their client or employer, to avoid conflicts of interest, and not to accept any payment or benefit from the other party in connection with the work. The Prevention of Corruption Act 2059 treats improper benefits to a public or project official as an offence, and the Public Procurement Act 2063 bars improper influence.

Options

  1. Accept everything: easy for friendship, but it breaks the code and puts my job and licence at risk.
  2. Refuse everything and cut the friendship: safe, but unnecessarily harsh.
  3. Decline the guest house and regular dinners, keep the friendship in a transparent way.
  4. Accept but disclose to my firm and client: still leaves the appearance of favour.

Recommendation

Choose option 3.

  • Politely decline the guest house and arrange my own accommodation (or the firm's/client's).
  • Decline the weekly dinner. If we meet socially, it should be occasional, not in a way that suggests a link to the work, and each pays his own share.
  • Inform my immediate superior about the friendship and the invitation, so there is transparency.
  • Explain frankly to Hari that I value the friendship, but my duty requires me to stay independent. A true friend will understand.
  • Continue to inspect strictly by the specification, record decisions in writing, and, if there is any doubt about impartiality, ask a colleague to check the particular work.

The friendship is important, but professional integrity and public trust come first.

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